Cannot see my icon in my MenuItem - wpf

Question

I have WPF application with simple Menu:
<Menu Name="menuColor" Margin="0,5,0,0">
<MenuItem Name="menuItemHeader" Header="Color" Style="{StaticResource MenuItemHeaderDefaultStyle}">
<MenuItem.Icon>
<Image Name="ButtonImageColor" Source="pack://application:,,,/Resources/update_black.ico" Height="12" Width="12"/>
</MenuItem.Icon>
<MenuItem Name="miBlue" Header="Blue" Click="miBlue_Click" Background="Transparent" Style="{StaticResource MenuItemDefaultStyle}">
<MenuItem.Icon>
<Image Name="miBlueImage" Source="pack://application:,,,/Resources/ok_mark2.png" Height="12" Width="12"/>
</MenuItem.Icon>
</MenuItem>
</MenuItem>
</Menu>
So in my title bar i have this Color text and after its clicked i have the option Blue.
So instead of this Color text i want to add icon and currently i cannot see my icon.
I also try to remove the Header="Color" but still i cannot see my icon.
Update:
This is the Style i am using in my MenuItem:
<Style x:Key="MenuItemHeaderDefaultStyle" TargetType="{x:Type MenuItem}">
<Setter Property="OverridesDefaultStyle" Value="True"/>
<Setter Property="Template">
<Setter.Value>
<ControlTemplate TargetType="{x:Type MenuItem}">
<Border x:Name="Border" BorderThickness="1">
<Grid Background="{DynamicResource AppBackground}">
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<ColumnDefinition x:Name="Col0" MinWidth="17" Width="Auto" SharedSizeGroup="MenuItemIconColumnGroup"/>
<ColumnDefinition Width="Auto" SharedSizeGroup="MenuTextColumnGroup"/>
<ColumnDefinition Width="Auto" SharedSizeGroup="MenuItemIGTColumnGroup"/>
<ColumnDefinition x:Name="Col3" />
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<!-- ContentPresenter to show an Icon if needed -->
<ContentPresenter Grid.Column="0" Margin="4,0,6,0" x:Name="Icon" VerticalAlignment="Center" ContentSource="Icon"/>
<!-- Glyph is a checkmark if needed for a checkable menu -->
<Grid Grid.Column="0" Visibility="Hidden" Margin="4,0,6,0" x:Name="GlyphPanel" VerticalAlignment="Center">
<Path x:Name="GlyphPanelpath" VerticalAlignment="Center" Fill="{TemplateBinding Foreground}" Data="M0,2 L0,4.8 L2.5,7.4 L7.1,2.8 L7.1,0 L2.5,4.6 z" FlowDirection="LeftToRight"/>
</Grid>
<!-- Content for the menu text etc -->
<ContentPresenter Grid.Column="1"
Margin="{TemplateBinding Padding}"
x:Name="HeaderHost"
RecognizesAccessKey="True"
ContentSource="Header"/>
<!-- Content for the menu IGT -->
<ContentPresenter Grid.Column="2"
Margin="8,1,8,1"
x:Name="IGTHost"
ContentSource="InputGestureText"
VerticalAlignment="Center"/>
<!-- Arrow drawn path which points to the next level of the menu -->
<Grid Grid.Column="3"
Margin="4,0,6,0"
x:Name="ArrowPanel"
VerticalAlignment="Center">
<Path x:Name="ArrowPanelPath"
HorizontalAlignment="Right"
VerticalAlignment="Center"
Fill="{TemplateBinding Foreground}"
Data="M0,0 L0,8 L4,4 z"/>
</Grid>
<!-- The Popup is the body of the menu which expands down or across depending on the level of the item -->
<Popup IsOpen="{Binding Path=IsSubmenuOpen, RelativeSource={RelativeSource TemplatedParent}}" Placement="Right" x:Name="SubMenuPopup" Focusable="false" PopupAnimation="{DynamicResource {x:Static SystemParameters.MenuPopupAnimationKey}}">
<Border x:Name="SubMenuBorder"
Background="White"
BorderBrush="{Binding Path=Foreground, RelativeSource={RelativeSource AncestorType={x:Type Menu}}}"
BorderThickness="0"
Padding="0"
Width="80">
<Grid x:Name="SubMenu" Grid.IsSharedSizeScope="True">
<!-- StackPanel holds children of the menu. This is set by IsItemsHost=True -->
<StackPanel IsItemsHost="True" KeyboardNavigation.DirectionalNavigation="Cycle"/>
</Grid>
</Border>
</Popup>
</Grid>
</Border>
<!-- These triggers re-configure the four arrangements of MenuItem to show different levels of menu via Role -->
<ControlTemplate.Triggers>
<!-- Role = TopLevelHeader : this is the root menu item in a menu; the Popup expands down -->
<Trigger Property="Role" Value="TopLevelHeader">
<Setter Property="Padding" Value="6,1,6,1"/>
<Setter Property="Placement" Value="Bottom" TargetName="SubMenuPopup"/>
<Setter Property="MinWidth" Value="2" TargetName="Col0"/>
<Setter Property="Width" Value="Auto" TargetName="Col3"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="Icon"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="GlyphPanel"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="IGTHost"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="ArrowPanel"/>
</Trigger>
<!-- Role = TopLevelItem : this is a child menu item from the top level without any child items-->
<Trigger Property="Role" Value="TopLevelItem">
<Setter Property="Padding" Value="6,1,6,1"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="ArrowPanel"/>
</Trigger>
<!-- Role = SubMenuHeader : this is a child menu item which does not have children -->
<Trigger Property="Role" Value="SubmenuHeader">
<Setter Property="DockPanel.Dock" Value="Top"/>
<Setter Property="Padding" Value="0,2,0,2"/>
</Trigger>
<!-- Role = SubMenuItem : this is a child menu item which has children-->
<Trigger Property="Role" Value="SubmenuItem">
<Setter Property="DockPanel.Dock" Value="Top"/>
<Setter Property="Padding" Value="0,2,0,2"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="ArrowPanel"/>
</Trigger>
<Trigger Property="IsSuspendingPopupAnimation" Value="true">
<Setter Property="PopupAnimation" Value="None" TargetName="SubMenuPopup"/>
</Trigger>
<!-- If no Icon is present the we collapse the Icon Content -->
<Trigger Property="Icon" Value="{x:Null}">
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="Icon"/>
</Trigger>
<!-- The GlyphPanel contains the CheckMark -->
<Trigger Property="IsChecked" Value="true">
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Visible" TargetName="GlyphPanel"/>
<Setter Property="Visibility" Value="Collapsed" TargetName="Icon"/>
</Trigger>
<!-- Using the system colors for the Menu Highlight and IsEnabled-->
<Trigger Property="IsHighlighted" Value="true">
<Setter Property="Background" Value="Transparent" TargetName="Border"/>
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="{DynamicResource HighlightedText}"/>
<Setter Property="BorderBrush" Value="{DynamicResource NormalBorderBrush}" TargetName="Border"/>
</Trigger>
<Trigger Property="IsHighlighted" Value="false">
<Setter Property="Background" Value="{DynamicResource AppBackground}" TargetName="Border"/>
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="{DynamicResource SolidMenuFontBrush}"/>
<Setter Property="BorderBrush" Value="{DynamicResource AppBackground}" TargetName="Border"/>
</Trigger>
<Trigger Property="IsEnabled" Value="false">
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="Gainsboro"/>
</Trigger>
<Trigger Property="IsMouseOver" Value="True">
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="White"/>
</Trigger>
</ControlTemplate.Triggers>
</ControlTemplate>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
</Style>