.awaitMessageComponent() in an ephemeral reply and then editing it - discord.js

Question

I have been trying to implement an interaction collector as per the discord.js guide, but the guide does not explain much of anything and the pieces I have puzzled together from other sources do not fit together. Here's the example from the guide:
message.awaitMessageComponent({ filter, componentType: 'SELECT_MENU', time: 60000 })
.then(interaction => interaction.editReply(`You selected ${interaction.values.join(', ')}!`))
.catch(err => console.log(`No interactions were collected.`));
It took me a day to figure out that you can define a message object like so:
message = await interaction.channel.send(content: 'text', components: >select menu<)
That works to run .awaitMessageComponent() and to grab the input from the select menu, however interaction.editReply() gives an error: INTERACTION_NOT_REPLIED
Moreover, I need it to be a reply anyway, however
message = await interaction.reply(content: 'text', components: >select menu<)
leaves message as undefined, so of course I cannot run .awaitMessageComponent() on it.
So I do not understand what I am supposed to do to do what that guide is doing.
I would very much appreciate any insight into this issue.
Unfortunately all other guides (usually on collectors) also start with a .send() message and most other resources go way over my head, as I have no real background in coding/scripting.
EDIT:
As Malik Lahlou points out, you can assign the reply by including the fetchReply:option, like so:
message = await interaction.reply({ components: [select menu], fetchReply: true })
However that still does not allow the guide's code to run (error INTERACTION_NOT_REPLIED, so after some more research I finally found a way to use .awaitMessageComponent() and applied to the guide's example it would look like this:
await interaction.reply({ components: [select menu], ephemeral: true });
const collectedSelect = await interaction.awaitMessageComponent({ filter, componentType: 'SELECT_MENU', time: 60000 })
.then(interaction => interaction.editReply(`You selected ${interaction.values.join(', ')}!`))
.catch(err => console.log(`No interactions were collected.`));

Answer 1

Simple answer, add the fetchReply option when replying to the interaction :
const message = await interaction.reply({
// content : ...,
// components : ...,
fetchReply: true
})
Another way would be to use interaction.fetchReply after awaiting the reply but it's better to directly give it as a parameter so discord.js does this stuff for us :D Here's an example on the official discord.js guide